Monday, March 30, 2009

lend me your ears (eyes)

aight, this is an informal but formal declaration of frustration. i am a very direct person, therefore i require those in my circle (inner, outer and surrounding) to be of the same suit or damn near close-i practice this to avoid frustration and unecessary piss-poor communication.when entering relationship, please PLEASE PAY ATTENTION to what's being said in the initial stages they set the tone for the rest of the relationship (if it gets that far) key question people should ask; what type of relationship are you looking for?

a. friends w/benefits
b. bootycall
c. sexually exclusive
d. boyfriend/girlfriend (this includes all emotions; good, bad and ugly)
e. the latest relationship w/o a title but similar to bf/gf just not outright saying it

if as a cohesive unit you can't agree on any or one of the above, save the drama for your mama if you know you are looking for a SPECIFIC ONE of these relationships dont settle if you BOTH AGREE on D, then damn it understand that it's a two-way street, you give and you get and by all means don't enter it full force then stop abruptly or switch the game up, that's wack!

COMMUNICATION is the key to everything and before anyone starts on their respective soapboxes :-D personally, i am clear of my expectations in every relationship and i do follow-ups and inbetween checks, i made one mistake and it's not gonna happen again. im done!

holla

Sunday, March 29, 2009

AS Step Show - Dunbar HS

It wasn't my best, that NY in me gets too amped sometimes but luckily someone caught it on tape so I'll really get to see where I can improve. I enjoyed the audience, they didn't BOO. I got asked to perform at another event and I met some cool people.